I wanted to share some links with everyone. After reading through some of these websites, I am more optimistic about Shelby's future. There are some amazing stories on the sites, and it seems like a lot of kids who have had it even worse than Shelby have gone on to lead very normal lives.
This first website is a blog from someone else who went to Duke. The before and after MRI's are amazing.
This website has good info about hydrocephalus, and more stories as well:
Reading stories from families who have already gone through this is very encouraging--especially at times when I'm not feeling so positive myself.